As you can see my sister-in-law was lovely
and full of life. She was an inspiration to many.
She is survived by my her
husband, three children, 2 grandchildren,
her brother and Mother.
There are two separate investigations underway.
It is believed by most so far that this was
a preventable accident.
Here are some facts:
*The boat was 22 feet long
*It's capacity was 12 people
*14 people were on board
*Alcohol was found on board
*Witnesses saw boat occupants
drinking prior to boarding the boat.
*The boat crashed into a moored tug
boat at a speed of 30-35 MPH
*The boat was 22 feet long
*It's capacity was 12 people
*14 people were on board
*Alcohol was found on board
*Witnesses saw boat occupants
drinking prior to boarding the boat.
*The boat crashed into a moored tug
boat at a speed of 30-35 MPH
*5 people were killed
*3 people were critically injured
*3 people were critically injured
They now believe that my SIL was driving
the boat.
They say she was driving because she was the
only one who could drive that wasn't
INTOXICATED.
The alcohol level in her blood was very low.
If the owner of this boat had acted responsibly,
and been the designated driver for his OWN
boat, this tragedy could have been avoided.
They still are not sure what actually caused
the boat to wreck.
Here is a photo of the boat after they pulled
it from the water.
Friends, if you enjoy an occasional alcoholic beverage,
PLEASE drink in the safety of your own home, and
don't put you or others at risk.
Families are shattered today because of this
boat owner's lack of personal responsibility.
the boat.
They say she was driving because she was the
only one who could drive that wasn't
INTOXICATED.
The alcohol level in her blood was very low.
If the owner of this boat had acted responsibly,
and been the designated driver for his OWN
boat, this tragedy could have been avoided.
They still are not sure what actually caused
the boat to wreck.
Here is a photo of the boat after they pulled
it from the water.
Friends, if you enjoy an occasional alcoholic beverage,
PLEASE drink in the safety of your own home, and
don't put you or others at risk.
Families are shattered today because of this
boat owner's lack of personal responsibility.
Please pray for all of the families that have lost
a loved one in this tragic accident.
A couple were quite young.
a loved one in this tragic accident.
A couple were quite young.
We all should endeavor to...
LIVE AND TEACH
PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY!
LIVE AND TEACH
PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY!
I thank you all once again for your loving
thoughts and prayers.
You are such a blessing to me.
Words seem insufficient to express what's
in my heart...
Love to you all,
Becky
thoughts and prayers.
You are such a blessing to me.
Words seem insufficient to express what's
in my heart...
Love to you all,
Becky
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Wow, it's like reading a news story. Was this on the news? What a sad, sad situation for your brother's family, especially his children. What a beautiful picture! Continuing to pray for you and your family!
ReplyDeleteJust tragic. Last year there was a similar boating accident that happened on a lake close to where we live.
ReplyDeleteIt's so frustrating knowing that these things could be prevented if people would just be more responsible and take people's lives seriously.
I'll be praying for the family.
Blessings,
Mandy
What a beautiful woman she was...I just held my hand over my mouth as I read your post...5 other's died..my heart is so broken over this tragedy..I think of her children,,I think of her husband whom they were separated from one another, and everything that goes with that. I think about all the loved ones that are left behind with their sorrow and pain. Thank you for sharing more with us, for giving us a 'face' of the woman we have been praying for her family...((hugs))
ReplyDeleteHi Becky,
ReplyDeleteMy heart just goes out to your family and the other families, who have lost so much, your sister-in-law was beautiful. Thank you for reminding all of us of the consequences from drinking and driving. My thoughts and prayers are with everyone.
Blessing,
Sue
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That is definitely the same accident that included people from my area. Clear across the country from you. So sad. Such promising lives lost.
ReplyDeleteThis is a powerful post, Becky. Such a sad situation. My heart goes out to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteHugs,
Linda C
wow, becky! when you said in a few posts back that she died in a boating accident, i immediately thought of that news story. it's got to be hard to move on. still praying for you and the family.
ReplyDeleteBecky~
ReplyDeletePraying for you all!!
Hugs and Blessings~
T
DEAR BECKY,
ReplyDeleteWHAT A TRAGIC LOSS...SHE WAS SO VERY BEAUTIFUL. WAS YOUR BROTHER ON BOARD WITH HER.....OR NOT....PRAISE GOD THOSE 3 PRECIOUS CHILDREN AND 2 GRANDCHILDREN DIDN'T LOSE BOTH PARENTS.
MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND EVERYONE INVOLVED.
I GREW UP IN BOATS....I AM SURPRISED THAT BOAT WAS APPROVED FOR 12 LET ALONE 14 BE ON BOARD...DID THE BOAT FLIP when it hit the moored tug...PLEASE KEEP US POSTED...I DON'T KNOW WHERE THIS ACCIDENT OCCURED BUT SHE COULD HAVE ENCOUNTERED A WAKE AND IF YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO CROSS A WAKE YOU COULD FIND YOURSELF IN ALOT OF TROUBLE
MY DEEPEST SYMPHATHY DURING THIS TRAGIC TIME AND THANK YOU FOR YOUR MESSAGE ABOUT DRINKING
GOD'S GLORY WILL COME FROM THIS EVEN THOUGH RIGHT NOW IT SEEMS SO VERY DARK.
HUGS
LOVE TO YOU
debbie
So sad. A little bit went a long way or too far in this case. I'm sorry you lost your SIL not forgetting the others killed and injured. I guess what makes it so hard to accept, was a little prevention could've saved some lives. There's a lesson we all can use more of.
ReplyDeleteThat is just heartbreaking. Your SIL was indeed a very beautiful woman. I pray that all the answers are found so that your family can begin the healing process. I am so sorry for this tragic loss...not only for your family but everyone involved. Sure wish I could give you a big hug.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry!!! My Uncle died on his boat also... he was drinking also... I am so sorry your family has gone through this terrible loss....
ReplyDeleteMy Sympathy's
Just A Gal...
Becky this is so so sad for you and your family. All I know to do is pray for all who are involved in this horrible accident.My heart goes out to you. This is something you usually read about but you really don't know the ones that are in the accident.This is truly a tragedy
ReplyDeleteLove prayers Becky.
I followed you from Lorrie's. I am truly so sorry for your tragic loss and for everyone who lost a loved one, because drinking was involved.
ReplyDeleteShe was beautiful! Bless her husband and children.
I lost my dad to a drunk driver at too young of an age and it left such agony and pain for those left behind.
My sincere prayers are with you and your family.:-)
Beth
What a tragedy for your family and all the families touched by this senseless accident. What a cautionary tale too. We are boaters and are always so careful.
ReplyDeleteRoberta Anne = the Raggedy Girl
A tragic lesson Becky, and one which everyone should take to their hearts. Keeping you and all who have been touched by this terrible event in our prayers x
ReplyDeleteWow, that is so tragic. We many times don't realize the fragilness of our lives until someone close to us dies, especially in an accident. My prayers continue to go out to you and your family that this loss of your sister-in-law will draw each one a little closer to the Lord. Take care dear friend. Love, Elena
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness Becky, I am so sorry for your loss. How sad to think that it could have been avoided. Again I am so sorry to hear of this.
ReplyDeleteYou and your family are in my prayers.
Thank you for always asking about my brother.
He is doing ok. He is not lonesome. Widows never are. But it will take a real gem to replace my sister-in-law.
Hugs
Becky
Wow, Becky. I just got caught up on all of the news about your SIL. I'm so sorry. I'll be praying for your family and her family, that they'll find peace through all this. It seems as though people just don't realize the damage alcohol can do if you're out driving a car, boat, etc. There was an accident recently here where 4 people were killed, 2 were children. Only one survived in the car and he was only 10 years old. He lost his mother and best friend. The driver of the other car survived, he was intoxicated well above the limit. So sad.
ReplyDeleteSo so sad. Dh's extended family has a boat and they take it out on the lake for holidays. I've always been adamant about my daughters *not* going out on the boat during those times since I know that not only are some of the people on the boat drinking, but I know others on the very crowded lake are as well. After reading this, I know my worries aren't unfounded.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry that such a tragedy has had to happen so close to home for you and also affect so many other lives in the process...
You are still in my heart and prayers. Thank you for the gentle reminder. I think some people take it for granted...this precious life we are given. You are right, people do need to take responsibility. Nothing is harder to deal with than something as senseless as what happened. I'm glad you have faith and such a good pure heart, you are an inspiration!
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BFF, Nancy
Becky... I am soooooooooooo sorry for your loss. You are right. Alcohol and driving of any sort is NOT ok... I am with you in thought today as this is such a tragic time for everyone involved.... Please know I will pray for all of those who were effected by this accident. Loving thoughts to a happy and healthy week to your family. Much love Becky... Jaime
ReplyDeleteWords cannot express the sorrow I am feeling right at this moment. All I can offer is my prayers. I feel inadequate.
ReplyDeleteFondly, Carrie
Hi Becky, you don't know me, but I saw your family's name on someone's prayer list and just wanted to stop by and say how sorry I am for your lost. May God bless and keep you family at this very dark time. Say prayers for all of you,
ReplyDeleteShanda
Becky, I'm so sorry for your loss. This is just tragic for all involved. May the Lord comfort and keep you and your family and those of the other people who were lost in the accident.
ReplyDeleteXO,
Sheila
Oh dear Becky, what a tragedy..
ReplyDeleteIt makes me so sad..all those folks who
lost a loved one..
I am praying for you ALL!!
God has a plan..Deena
I am so sorry to hear about your loss...
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